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Appropriate Response

Aaaaargh……
O! M! G!
What have I done?
What on earth have I done?
Now he’s never going to want to talk to me again ever ever. What am I going to do?
I think I may have just made a person feeling bad feel much worse, and so I’m feeling bad, really bad especially since I didn’t intend to make him feel worse, I should have just said my sympathy or something like that right! but no, all I did was rant on and on and on about how bad a terrible situation was, please ask me who asked me or what good did it do? And I’ll say I wonder o… I guess I just chose the wrong way of saying I know how you feel, I was getting to the “it gets better” part but I think I took too long getting there.
Now he’s going to wish he never told me, and I’m wishing I had chosen fewer words, and we’re both feeling bad all because I couldn’t give an appropriate response.
Yeah! That’s right, that was where I went wrong. All that I said to him was the truth but it wasn’t the appropriate response, it was true but not encouraging and in his own words “as bleak as what lies behind the sun” I could have said a dozen other things to make my friend feel better but 🙈… I didn’t mean to, I just…

Alright! Alright! You can stop moping now, Lessons learned!! Moving on!!!

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A muslimah blogger who loves talking about #Islam, and life as I see it, I'm just me!!! cos that's all I need to be #awesome. I believe in God and I believe in me. team #da'awah

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